Date
Open to Coffee date
About 45 minutes, somewhere with good coffee
Singles in their 30s
Low-pressure first meets for singles in their 30sCoffee date in Tanjong Pagar this Saturday?
No swiping and no endless chatting. Post one first meet you'd actually enjoy, like a 45-minute coffee or a gallery walk. People who match what you're looking for say I'm in, and you choose.
Post your first cardHow it works
Free · 18+ · Area only, never your exact spot
For adults 18 and over. You confirm your age when you sign up.
Why it works
- One clear plan replaces a hundred small talk chats.
- You set who sees Date cards: gender, age range and what you're looking for.
- Date cards never reach people who only chose Ideas or Friends.
- First meets happen in busy public places, and chat opens only when you both say yes.
Cards you could post
Examples to start from. Change the details to suit you.
Date
Open to Gallery visit
About National Gallery, then a drink if it's going well
Date
Open to a walk
About southern Ridges at sunset, an easy pace
Date
Open to dinner
About hawker date, we each pick one dish
Date
Open to Brunch
About weekend brunch and a farmers' market
More ideas, ready to post
Tap one and the post form opens already filled in.
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- DateOpen to a museum date, then dinnerCivic District
- DateOpen to a botanic gardens strollBotanic Gardens · Sun 8am
- DateOpen to a long walk and a long talkMacRitchie
- DateOpen to a farmers' market dateDempsey
- DateOpen to a Valentine's anti-dateTanjong Pagar
Good places to meet
- National Gallery Singapore: Easy to talk in, with cafés on site.
- Southern Ridges and Henderson Waves: Popular evening walk, busy at sunset.
- Tanjong Pagar and Duxton: Plenty of cafés and bars close together.
- Singapore Botanic Gardens: Free entry, calm and public.
Tips
- Keep the first meet to an hour or so. You can always extend it.
- Get there and home on your own.
- Make a safety link from the chat and send it to a friend.
- Be clear in your card about what you're looking for.
Questions
Is Date mode separate from Friends mode?
Yes. A Date card is shown only to people who chose Date mode and match your preferences.
Do I have to chat for days first?
No. Cards are plans. If you both say yes, you can sort the details quickly and meet.
What if it's not a match in person?
Short first meets make that easy. Thank them, head off, and there's no pressure to meet again.
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