Friends
Open to coffee chat
About 45 minutes of kopi, quiet café
Introverts
Quiet, short and one-on-oneA 45-minute kopi, quiet café, Sunday?
No big groups and no loud bars. Post a short, quiet plan, like a museum walk or 45 minutes of kopi, and meet one person who likes the same pace.
Post your first cardHow it works
Free · 18+ · Area only, never your exact spot
For adults 18 and over. You confirm your age when you sign up.
Why it works
- One-on-one plans by default. Groups only if you choose.
- You can set a time limit in the card, like 45 minutes.
- Activities give you something to talk about.
- You choose who joins. No pressure to say yes to anyone.
Cards you could post
Examples to start from. Change the details to suit you.
Friends
Open to museum visit
About A slow museum walk, we can talk or not
Friends
Open to Library visit
About library browse, then swap one recommendation
Friends
Open to a walk
About early birdwatching walk
Ideas
Open to coffee chat
About A book I can't stop thinking about
More ideas, ready to post
Tap one and the post form opens already filled in.
Good places to meet
- Public libraries: Quiet, free and easy to leave.
- Museums: Something to look at, so silence is comfortable.
- Parks and gardens: Walk side by side instead of face to face.
Tips
- Put a time in the card, like '45 minutes'. It makes saying goodbye easy.
- An easy exit line: 'This was nice, I'm going to head off now.'
- Pick an activity, so there's always something to talk about.
Questions
Do I have to join groups?
No. Cards are one-on-one unless you set a group size.
What if I want to leave early?
That's fine. Set a time in the card, and thank them when it's time to go.
Can I just browse first?
Yes. Look at cards nearby before you post your own.
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